Thursday, April 17, 2008

Secrets Uncensored

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4 comments:

Anonymous said...

you know, I think everything happens for its very own good reason. Whoever did this to you may have done something wrong in the future if this didn't happen. And I know it sounds stupid but EVERY possible thing that happens happens for it's very own reason that changes as time goes on. It is hard to deal with, but just remember, what happens happens. You can't chnage the law of nature and the way life changes on its own. Just let everything fall into place. I promise it'll make everything right :] :]

Secrets said...

As one goes through life, you want to beleif that things happen for a reason...but it is extremely difficult to understand that when you see other people you love dearly suffer and you can't do anything about it. There is a purpose in life, I know. I just wished that our lifes come with instructions and quick guides so that we know what we are supposed to do instead of making so many mistakes.

I had a call from a friend who was so desperate for someone to listen to her inner emotions because she knew I have been through a similar situation. I realized then that the behavior contain a pattern. I understood then that man's guide to the heart is visual, so whatever their eyes see is what they want regardless of what their heart wants...

She was heartbroken to know that after so many years of living for this man, supporting him, loving him, taking care of him, cooking for him...he decided to go with a chick who is younger than her, who only cares about how much money she can pull out of him and the crazy thing about all of this is that he knows it...

Oh my God....

Can a good women be good anymore...

I guess I'm too old fashion...I'm trapped in this younger body...

So hard to find an honest person now days...

Well, all in all I think the reason why I went through all the hell I went through is to be able to listen to others and counsel in any way I can.

I can honestly say I can understand when people come to me for advise. I know exactly how it feels when they explain their pain.

We can relate.

So, in response to your post.

It is true, we have to wait and see justice served.

Thank you very much for your post.

Remember to send the link to all of your friends so that they know there is a place where you can share your feelings, emotions without being judge.

Anonymous said...

Why stay unhappy?

Life is too short. Live as if it was your last day on earth.

Secrets said...

Reflection

As I sit here and type while I work, I can't stop thinking that I much rather be outdoors helping people make their lifes better. I ask myself: why can't I just do that? then reality hits me and my mind answers: because you need to pay your bills.

I wondered how many other individuals in this world have the potential to do something good that makes them feel good to help others but can't because of their finances? Then my mind rushes out and say: well I think everything has that desire to a certain extent that is why children are so funny, curious because they don't have the adult worries of being self sufficient.

What is adulthood? working for someone else you are not happy with? wishing everyday you can do better and help others? but how? if I only had the money to pay my bills I have enough time to help so many people.

Then I stop daydreaming and realized like many other individuals we are prisioners of work, life, responsabilities.

I reflect on that facts that:
Nature is my healer, As I look at the sky I notice clouds are different everyday, the sunsets have different colors, the sun sometimes hides, the rain provide growth to our plants/flowers, the air allow us to breath, the birds get fed daily and then after all these thoughts that goes through my head in less than one minute:
I GIVE THANKS FOR EVERYTHING I HAVE TODAY, RIGHT NOW.

Nobody promised me I should be here today writing this message but I AM.

What is your response?